March 5th

Well a month has flown by. Has it changed since the last time I wrote?? No not really. It is still sunny but the snow on the ground says it still seems like winter here. It can't last forever. Spring has to get here this month. My calender says so. 

I come to you guys tonight with a heavy heart. Not sad for myself but sad for others that I thought were my friends. 

Seems I have been unfriended. It was hardest when it was my own brother then his son my nephew, his wife and now school friends that I have known my whole life have decided to shut me out. You may be wondering why Kim, why would they do that? The only answer is that I post positive things on my Facebook page. Not smut, not gossip, not vulgar shares from someone elses page that has remarks on it I never want to repeat. 

Instead I post at least 2 or 3 positive things a day. Quotes and such to lift people up not drag them down. I post pictures of people successfully losing weight with an Advocare program. Be it the 24 day challenge or some other plan. I want people to be inspired to make changes in their life. I want to be the person that goes the extra mile to help someone out of a funk. Who has tried everything but failed and sees no hope out there. Believe me the stuff I see posted that I don't care to see makes me glad I post some positives for people to at least glance at. So even though I am sad those people chose to push me out of their line of sight. Guess what? I am still out here doing what I set out to do. Lose weight and get fit by July. I have no way of knowing about all the others who said they would, but I do wish them well. We need to take care of our bodies. We only get one in this lifetime so make it count. 

I am saddened that my being positive was such a turn off to others. People who would rather eat drink and be merry because they live in the "now". People who are drowning in debt working at a J O B that pays them just enough to stay. So the misery loves company line is true. Except I am not miserable. I am happy with my life and where I and my family are going. God has his hand on us and we are blessed because of it. I do not take any credit for my successes. I thank God for great favor. So this is a short but to the point blog entry. Those people who decided I was not worthy of their pages have lost maybe the one person who believed in them. The one person who would have said to them "things are going to be better, keep going and move up the line to find your dreams" I was their biggest supporter. Guess what? I still am.